On Burn Out

Hello…

Well October sure took a turn, did it for anyone else? It seems like everything almost just hit at once and then next thing I knew it was November. I seriously have no idea where the month went of what we did (well I do, it’s all on the calendar, but you know what I mean). I said yes far too many times to far too many things and I came very close to burnout only to get reprieves at the last minute (thank you to my child who needed a mental health day that coincided with my own need for a mental health day). And all while it seems like the outside world is struggling more than ever and I feel that pull that I can do more, need to do more. 

I’m well into building my community here between our Spouses Club, our Spicy Book Club, Subbing and Volunteering within the school, and our little portion of the neighborhood. That has been so good. I don’t want to say I’m hitting my stride just yet, but I’m on my way to that. 

However, I’ve definitely needed to find that balance. In fact, It’s not a balance at all- it’s a juggle. That’s what I hear in October (via a TikTok algorithm moment), and I really found that that was a slightly better mindset. Rather than finding a balance, I juggle- I focus on the balls that are currently moving and the other are in the background. It sounds weird to say and I can’t quite explain it, but this little reframing takes some of the pressure off. I can prioritize with the best of them, and this fits very well with that. I don’t have to try and focus on everything all at once, but certain things at certain times and in certain ways. 

With that though, my boundary of saying “no” has been completely obliterated. I would also say though that my boundary and ability to delegate and ask for help has improved. That’s partially because it’s been forced, but I also think I’ve just gotten more comfortable with it. Reminding myself that I don’t have to do it all myself and run myself into the ground over it has been a game changer. 

Something else that I’ve had to remind myself, is that just because I love doing all the things and that the burnout isn’t as bad or as major because I love doing all the things, doesn’t mean that I don’t experience the burnout. If that makes any sense whatsoever. In October I met with a female leader of our local Chabad (she was absolutely lovely, and I can’t wait to visit there more). While we were chatting, she said… “well what do you do to take care of yourself”. I promptly answered, “I stay up far too late reading books in the quiet of my house”. She half chuckled and that’s when it kind of dawned on me- my “taking care of myself” while re charges me, it also drains me at times. 

When my older son had a rough time and needed a mental health day- I was forced to take one to. As we sat on the couch together spending the day reading – it hit me that I needed this too. Something I had only slightly acknowledged. 

So, what does all this mean? Other than me self-analyzing and oversharing (and hopefully not coming off as complaining- as I truly love all the things, I am committing myself to) …it means that we need to continue to be mindful of our body and soul. Just because we love all the things doesn’t mean we won’t burnout. Just because we want to do all the things doesn’t mean that we can. Take some time to take care of yourself. 

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A Little Life Lately

It’s been a minute since I’ve sat down and just done a little life update- I think the last one was when we arrived in Alaska. The original post I wanted to post today is not quite ready to be shared yet, but I still wanted to stick with my schedule, so I figured a little life lately chatty post would be a fun one. 

Life has certainly picked up since the move. 

We basically got our house set up and then immediately jumped in wholeheartedly with both feet. We said yes to all the things, hit the ground running and exploring, and it’s only been recently that I feel like maybe we shouldn’t have jumped in so fast (haha). Not that I regret the choice, but more so, I’m realizing that some of the little things haven’t been sorted, the schedule and routine are all over the place, and the beginnings of burnout are settling in. In fact, as I’m writing this, I’ve taken a day to just be at home, in a quiet house, by myself. This is how I recharge. 

I’ve taken on several roles within our community, on the PTO, on our local spouses’ club, subbing in classrooms, trying to still volunteer with the USO, as well as leading 2 books clubs. And I can feel my heart being pulled in another direction as well. I’m trying to find the balance in a way that works for me, for our family, and for our community. It’s the most rewarding thing to fill my cup in these ways, but it also makes for some busy weeks and a bit of a spinning brain at times. 

My husband has also gone full force straight into work- which has been busy for him as well.  A lot of my balancing comes from trying to meet the demands on him and lessen the needs from us so he can focus fully on what he needs to get done. Part of that is just being a wife, part of it is being a military spouse. 

As for the kids- they’ve been good! They’re making their own little friend group, which includes several kiddos on our street. It’s been so great to watch them come home from school, grab their scooters and immediately head out to meet up with friends. I feel like it’s a quintessential childhood experience and I love that they’re finally getting that. (This is due to age and location that they are able to do this now) They’ve loved learning about the local area and all the unique…ness that comes with living in Interior Alaska…

Which is the perfect Segway into our first look at Interior Alaska and life here. First, and most importantly, we absolutely love it here. The beauty of Alaska is unparalleled. From just the wilderness down the road (for some outside their door), to the wildlife really ruling the land, the way you can anticipate so much just by looking out your window/at the land itself, to the freaking Northern Lights that show just about every night (though whether you see them or not due to clouds is a different story). I can safely say that we are having very serious discussions about this being a forever spot. It’s truly incredible. 

We are starting to see a change in the season- and when that started it went fast. Our Autumn colors were really only about a week to two weeks, and they were more…muted autumn tones (which I might almost prefer- it was so pretty). Autumn came and went, and we’ve settled into our 30/40-degree temps lately. We are seeing a difference in our daylight hours too. I notice it more so when I’m taking the kids to school and the sun hasn’t risen. I’m excited to see the continued changes as we start to enter proper winter. 

Finally, I don’t get political on this blog a lot (which please note some minor changes in that as I start navigating some new roles and desires and needs), but I can’t post this without speaking gently toward the Government Shutdown. We, as a military family, are looking at missing a paycheck this month. And more potentially as this continues on. There is no urgency or desire to pass even a Pay Our Troops act, let alone an actual budget. While missing a paycheck is absolutely unacceptable and puts so much hardship on families- many of whom are living paycheck to paycheck, this shutdown has even more far-reaching impacts. We were already seeing program and funding issues prior to this; those have all gotten increasingly worse. We are seeing resources being tapped out, seeing breakdown in the processes to apply for loans to cover paychecks (which we won’t even get into that process). We are seeing issues coming into programs that are deemed essential but have contracts outside the organization that do not have funding. 

All this hardship both for our troops- troops who continue to show up, to do work, to train, to do the job and they are facing losing a paycheck (at minimum), financial hardship issues both at work and at home and no sense of urgency or even a willingness to come to the table. 

***And to be fair- a lot of the issues go beyond this shutdown. There needs to be some real changes made across the board, but this is always when it comes to a head, and we really see all the shortcomings***

Please, no matter what side of the line you fall (or if you’re not on either side), we can all recognize that it shouldn’t be this way. Write your elected officials, check in with your government employee and military families and friends. 

So, that’s a little life lately…

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A Cuppa Cosy Reads – September 2025

Boy oh boy, September came in with a bang and left with a bang…and I still don’t know what happened during the month. Whew. 

We had family visit at the beginning, my husband was in and out throughout the month, I started working. And volunteering and community events started ramping up. I feel a bit all over the place to be honest, so here I am, sitting down to write some posts in the hopes that it’ll ground me before I have to move on to the next thing. 


With all of that- I somehow read 8 books this month! While I had some average reads in there, I also had some absolute winners and new favorites. I gave an average rating of 3.857, which might be the highest average in a while! I’m really hopeful about October too as I’ve picked some real good ones out, I think.

I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jeannette McCurdy NR One of the things I really enjoyed about this book was how frank she was. We share a semi similar history with traumatic childhoods through our mothers and it was nice to hear someone else discuss it with such frankness. You can tell she has been in therapy and is working through a lot of issues (which I love for her!) and therefore is able to now recognize certain issues or patterns. As someone who went through a lot of therapy, I can speak about certain life experiences with such frankness that it throws people off. This was a breath of fresh air in that sense. 

Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Reid 5 Stars Boy does this live up to all of the hype! It was such a slow but beautiful story, and you can’t help but just fall in love with what exists between the covers. I will say, I recognize some people have some issues with the ending (and I’d love to talk them through with you if you do), but I found it to be exactly as I’d imagined and there is only one thing I’d change if anything. 

Beautiful Things by Emily Rath 4 Stars Mia- you have a why choose book on this wrap up AND you gave it 4 stars?! Yes- I really loved this book. It has the best mix of social society and dynamics in regency England with smut. The fact that this worked for me (or at least this book) is fantastic and I cannot wait to read the second one. 

Fall I Want by Lyra Parish 3 Stars This was “fine”. I learned that I really like to have that 3rd act breakup, even as ridiculous as it can be, it progresses things and gives a little drama. I found that things went a little too easy (and not because everyone was emotionally mature, but because it just went easy). I don’t have too much more to add to it. 

Julie Chan is Dead by Liann Zhang 5 Stars When I tell you that I loved this book- I mean it. This was great, a mix between social commentary, social media, thriller, a hint of the horror…it had it all. This was such a great ride to read, and I would highly recommend it. 

Spookily Yours by Jennifer Chipman 3 Stars Again, another OK book. This is actually a novella and a very cheesy one at that (which I expected based on the cover), but I wish there had been a bit more to it. Give me a bit more struggle, a bit more development and I might have rated it higher.

The Marigold Cottages Murder Collective by Jo Nichols 3 Stars I think the word that I can best use to describe my issues with this book is “lazy”. There was so much about this book that was lazy- from the character development to the actual makeup and twist to the story. There was also a bit too much performative diversity that ended up detracting from the story as a whole. I didn’t hate the story or book, but I definitely found some issues that could have been handled before publishing. 

Love Arranged by Lauren Asher 4 Stars This was the third book in this sister series, and I really enjoyed this one! I loved the dynamic between our two main characters and the fact that they didn’t waste time. This was the first series of hers that I have read start to finish and I’m glad I did! 

So, that was September! I’m really happy with the reading I did and the books I chose. What was your favorite book in the past month?

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Fall Semester Course Curriculum

There’s a trend going around (or gone around- I’m a little late as I waited to get all of my things set before sharing) about creating our own course curriculums for learning. It is basically a bunch of women giving themselves permission to learn further about the things that intrigue them for nothing more than enjoyment of learning. This was really pushed out be a creator called Elizabeth Jean (@xparmesanprincessx on TikTok) and I’ve not only enjoyed her videos but watching everyone else also come up with their own curriculums. I’ve found some new things to look into for the future!

For me, what I want the course curriculum to be is something that I am interested in, potentially know at a basic level, but want to dig deeper into. I’m trying to steer away from topics that I might have immersed myself in prior (Henry VIII and co I’m looking at you), but I’m also not going to close myself off to them if the desire to go down a path strikes. I’m trying to keep them at the “semester” schedule- so studying across 3 months or so, just to keep myself realistic and have it be enjoyable. 

For my first curriculum I’m going to be engaging on topics that has kind of been at the forefront the past few years, is a big part of history and hoping to tie the two courses together in the coming time. I’ve given myself a syllabus and any writing or research or knowledge I gain over this period I’ll share on here 

So, first I’ll be studying the Titanic- but not the initial disaster, I think we are all very aware of what happened. I’m going to focus on the aftermath, the testimonies, the judgement, the way the news then handled this great disaster. I might try and tie in some other facets (like looking at our modern obsession with the disaster and where that stems from), but I’m not sure about that yet. I’ve picked up some books and done some initial research for this course- which I am titling Witnesses & Headlines: Testimony and Media Coverage of the Titanic Disaster. 

For my reading for this course, I’ve picked up: The Truth About the Titanic by Archibald Gracie IV, Titanic 1912: The Original News Reporting of the Sinking of the Titanic, The Titanic Disaster Hearings by Tom Kuntz, and Titanic on Trial: The Night the Titanic Sank Told Through the Testimonies of her Passengers and Crew. I plan on re watching a couple of more recent documentaries about the Titanic to go along with the course as well.

The second course I’ve picked for myself is a bit of a Gilded Age overview, titled- Class, Power, and Persona: Social Hierarchies of the Gilded Age. I’m going to be looking at social roles, gender dynamics, and class division during the Gilded Age. I think we’re all on the same page when it comes to the Gilded Age (in that we know about it, and we all watch the HBO show, but what was the day to day like? What were the true dynamics? What would it have been like to live in between Mrs. Astor and Mrs. Vanderbilt?). I’m enthralled with learning about the social dynamics and the day to day of era’s long past, much like I imagine someday in the future people might want to know our day by day (ooooofffffff). 

For my reading for this course, I’ve picked up: When the Astor’s Owned New York by Justin Kaplan, A Season of Splendor: The Court of Mrs. Astor in Gilded Age New York by Greg King, The Social Graces by Renee Rosen, and Consuelo and Alva Vanderbilt by Amanda Mackenzie Stuart. I am working on trying to find some documentaries or podcasts to go along with these books- if you know any, please let me know!

I do plan on doing all my normal reading during this time period as well and I have added some…topic specific fiction books to read during the time just to enhance the experience. I’m hoping to tie both of these together in a future curriculum covering our obsession with these eras and disasters as well as how they compare to the society of today. Alternately I could tie both these subjects together with the Belle Epoque of Paris and look at the time period as a whole leading up to the disaster of the Titanic.  But who knows, at the end I could completely move on from the subject matter!

I’m really looking forward to spending a bit more time learning this Autumn and just digging deeper into some topics that I want to learn more about. If you could study anything, create your own curriculum, what would it be? I might grab some ideas for future curriculums. 

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A Cuppa Cosy Reads – August 2025

I feel like this year is just flying by and I can’t catch up! Before we know it, it will be time to be talking about the year as a whole and new reading goals- which is scary to think about. I would say August was a fairly average reading month for me; a couple of standouts, but on the whole nothing super special in any of the books. I read a total of 8 books and gave an average rating of 3.28. 

Loving a Vampire is Total Chaos by Aura Hayes 2 Stars – This book was total chaos…

Mean Moms by Emma Rosenblum 3.5 Stars – This book was so much fun in all good ways, but it was also just a standard thriller esque story. 

A Witch’s Guide to Magical Innkeeping by Sangu Mandanna 4 Stars – I thoroughly enjoyed all the coziness this book brought, but I also felt a little let down (possibly because it was so built up after all the publishing delays). 

Rush Week by Michelle Brandon 3 Stars – Another average thriller, though this one was more boring in certain parts than Mean Moms. I don’t know if it was too much with reading it during Rush Week or if it was the book itself (probably the latter to be honest).

Automatic Noodle by Annalee Newitz 4 Stars – This was just a delightful novella- I could have read more about these robots trying to open a noodle spot. 

Sword Catcher by Cassandra Clare 3.75 Stars – While I enjoyed this immensely and am looking forward to picking up the second, I also felt like at times it was a bit…long winded and was repeating itself in ways that wasn’t necessary (the author does a great job at showing not telling, but then would tell us after). 

How to Make a Horror Movie and Survive by Craig DiLouie 3 Stars – This was solid in some parts and yet feel short in other parts. I felt like it was a little drawn out, so when we got to the punchy parts, it was already a little tiring to read. I enjoyed the last sections, but the lead up was a little overdone. 

To Have and To Heist by Sara Desai 3.5 Stars – This was cute and fun and a great comedy of errors, but I don’t think I need to read any further. 

And that’s it! A solid month if not as high a rating as I’d like. On to September and the start of all the autumnal reads. 

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The Home Library – Alaska Edition

I think this is now the third iteration of my home library that I’ve shared on here (3rd or 4th I can’t recall) and this one is my favorite of them all. I don’t know if I’ll ever have this set up, this perfection again, so I firmly plan on being here every single day (and I have been so far). But first, let’s go back and see through the years how the home library has existed in our various houses…

The 1st edition (the one I don’t know if I shared or not) was known as the wall of books. And was simply, a wall of books. It was dreamy in its own way (I mean who wouldn’t want to just have a wall of books), but there wasn’t much seating within the books- the chair was opposite- and it was also in the office- so lots of other things happened instead of reading. 

The 2nd edition was the first corner set up. It was where I first started becoming “Belle”. It didn’t have a chair within the library itself, but it was moldable, and I would move the boy’s little nugget in, I would re arrange easily, and it became our Hogwarts library of dreams when we did the hanging candles from the ceiling. It was my first chance to start seeing what I’d like in a library and what I don’t need. 

The 3rd edition was the shortest of them all- our one year in Texas. Another corner shelf set up, though we added a lamp, had the chair in the library, and had a separate area for library books. This was a great set up- I learned that I absolutely need a lamp (multiple would be nice if possible) and I placed a speaker on one of the shelves- which was a great addition. 

Finally, here we are this 4th edition. You will be able to see why I won’t be able to top this one- it’s an absolute dream. I’ve got a cushioned window seat, the wall of books, but still two corners, the chair and lamp within the library, but also plenty of space to host/bring in more cushions for the kids to read too. It’s dreamy in all the best ways and I really truly plan on spending a little bit of time here every day.

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Driving the Alaska Canada Highway

When we moved to Interior Alaska from Texas, we drove. Boy it was a long drive, but the best part of the drive was when we entered the Alaska Canada Highway. It had the prettiest views, the most remote locations on our entire route (and seriously no cell phone service ANYWHERE). This is the only way to drive to Alaska that does not include taking the ferry- which was not an option for us (and not something we were really interested in). 

Originally constructed during WW2, the Alaska Canada Highway was a dream first mentioned in the 1920’s. The idea of connecting the Northern United States to Alaska via Canada was novel (and unwanted for a long time by Canada). However, when Japan attacked Pearl Harbor a lot of concern was voiced regarding Alaska and then the further interior of both Canada and the United States. In February of 1942 both countries (Canada and the United States) came to an agreement to fund and build the road. It detailed that the USA would bear the full cost and most of the construction during the war, once the war was over the US would hand the Canadian portions back to Canada. 

Construction was started in March of 1942 with a total of 10,000 soldiers from the Army Corp of Engineers responsible for seeing this dream to fruition. It was initially marked as a supply route (though it was never actually used for this). They went about building the road using four main pushes and worked from one end to the other. While building, they left quite the mess around causing the road to be nicknamed “oil can highway” and ended up decimating an indigenous village and most of its residents. Six months after construction began crews met in the “middle” of the route and the route was completed in October of 1942 (shocking what a world war will do for construction). 

The road was initially completed simply for army vehicles to use. Standard vehicles were not able to drive the route until 1943 due to steep grades, no guard rails, and switchbacks (to name a few problems). In fact, in the spring/summer of 1943 a large portion of the route was unusable due to permafrost thawing causing the road to be destroyed. 

In April of 1946 the United States signed the land back over to Canada, along with all of the maintenance needed for the road. While this handover took place in 1946, the roads did not start changing/improving and being paved until the late 1950’s and 1960’s. Paving was done in spurts and there are still sections today where it is gravel. 

The Alaska Canada Highway has changed routes ever so slightly providing a safer route, shorter route, and improvement for driving conditions. This means that some of the mile markers are not correct (specifically once you reach Alaska) and that some of the older roads have been surpassed and are simply neighborhood roads (can you imagine?!). 

We spent a total of 4-5 days on the Alaska Canada Highway, and it is simply the most gorgeous route there is. The roads are really good and well maintained- until the last stretch of road, which does have the permafrost heaves and quite a lot of the gravel sections. A couple of important notes if you choose (or are made to) travel the Alaska Canada Highway-

  1. Grab the Milepost book. This was first published in 1949 (at only 72 pages) and has grown into the definitive mile by mile guidebook. It not only covers the route, but places to stay, things to do, gas stations, and other fun things. It is the biggest help from planning the trip to actually being on the road. There were a couple spots we stopped at because we read about them in the Milepost. It is almost 800 pages of information on every single aspect of the route and region. The Milepost can be purchased online or when you get to the route, but you can also grab free guidebooks at the entry point, and these are valuable as well! They tend to be a bit more condensed down but are still great to have. I referenced both throughout the trip. 
  2. Remember that you will not have any phone service (unless you have a starlink). The route is fairly straightforward (especially if you have the Milepost), but there is no phone service if you get stranded. When we head out of Alaska (if we do), I do think we will put our Starlink into some sort of travel mode just so that we have that in case of emergencies. Thankfully we didn’t need to worry about it too much and each hotel we stayed at had internet service so we could do what we needed. 
  3. The road itself is decent until the last stretch and the last stretch will either be great or terrible. I wanted to touch on this because the road varies from day to day. When we went through (mid-July), it wasn’t terrible. We think we were past the leveling efforts (they do this every year after thawing), the holes had been patched for the most part, and we didn’t have much traffic. However, that does not always dictate the condition of the road- it can vary wildly with traffic and weather. The road can also close due to accidents, wildfires, or damage. Another note- there are typically not “shoulders” to pull off to. You get as close to the side as you can (out of traffic), but then you are at the mercy of other vehicles to be able to move enough in order for you to do what you needed to do (was never more grateful for a blown tire early in the morning with only one other car on the road). 
  4. Stop, stop, stop! Make all the stops- enjoy the food, enjoy the scenery, and stop everywhere you even have the slightest desire too. I wish we had done a smidge more hiking, but we didn’t really have the travel days built in to do that. We did stop at the Liard Hot Springs, and it was the best little break (and the best priced hot springs). We stopped at a service/rv area for some bison burgers and a commemorative coin. We would pull over on the side of the road (for kids’ potty breaks really) and just admire the general beauty of the area. Untouched wilderness is something special. 
  5. If you are going to drive the Alaska Canada Highway, your final and most up to date resource is the Driving the AlCan group on Facebook. This is run and maintained by locals to the route, has a plethora of resources and files to cover everything you might need for the trip, and provides up to date information on any closures. Seriously this group is amazing.

Our travel from TX to AK was honestly pretty incredible and full of such beautiful site (even if it was loooooonnnnnnngggggggg). 

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A Cuppa Cosy Reads – June/July 2025

June & July were a couple of busy months- both personally and for reading! I somehow managed to read 15 books across both months and across one and a half countries. It was two months filled of high highs and some very memorable lows (at least reading wise). I gave an average rating of 3.75. 

So, let’s get into it…

Lights Out by Navessa Allen 4 Stars: This is marketed as a “dark romance”, but I found it to be rather charming (no, I’m not sure what that says about me). While it can have darker themes, these are quickly pushed to the side as you get to know the characters and the story unfolds. 

Bad Jews by Joshua Harmon 4 Stars: This was just a classic Jewish good time. 

The Will of the Many by James Islington 4 Stars: This is one of those books that I just loved the complex nature that I had zero understanding of. Do I find that some things needed further meaning and explanation? Sure. Did we get that? No. Did I love it anyway? Yes. Especially that ending- I need more information now. 

This Summer Will be Different by Carley Fortune 3.5 Stars: I picked this up because it takes place on one of my favorite places- Prince Edward Island, Canada. I really enjoyed it, the romance was endearing, even if I’m not a second chance type of person (if this could even be a second chance- maybe more of a physical to emotional romance. 

Shield of Sparrows by Devney Perry 2.5 Stars: Look this was overhyped for me in the worst way. I found the female main character to be obnoxious, the story to be too obvious and predictable and I just was not a fan from start to finish. 

The Compound by Aisling Rawle 3.75 Stars: This came a bit out of a left field, but I thoroughly enjoyed it. Big Brother meets Survivor (in a weird way)? Sign me up! My only big complaint about this book was that at times it was almost too complacent, then it would do something shocking to try and push the characters into the arc, but the timing was off. Highly recommend though. 

House of Bane and Blood by Alexis L. Menard 5 Stars: Sometimes a book comes at just the right time when you’re in the right place and that was what this duology was. An excellent steam punk urban fantasy story that I loved from start to finish. This first one is full of world building (but not overwhelmingly so), and the beginning of the tension. 

City of Mirth and Malice by Alexis L. Menard 5 Stars: This is the second book in this duology, and I found it to be the perfect concluding story, while still allowing the door to be open for any future spin off stories (which I think could easily happen). This was a good balance between the world and the fantasy with the romance- neither one crowding the other out. 

Rose in Chains by Julie Soto 3.75 Stars: I think this is the first “dark romance” that I’ve read that I’ve felt uncomfortable during. Granted I don’t read a lot, and I am very aware of what my triggers are when it comes to books, I found this to have some very uncomfortable moments (as it should given the world). Still, I enjoyed the overall story and I need the next book ASAP. While I know where the trope is going, I am appreciating the tension and slow build/burn of the characters. 

The Hunters Way by Craig Raleigh NR: To be honest, I don’t know if I could tell you anything about this book today. Zero. This was an audio book my husband picked while we were driving, and I think that’s about all there is to tell. 

Gloves Off by Stephanie Archer 4 Stars: Stephanie Archers is like Elsie Silver or Elle Kennedy; I can usually count on her for a solid (if maybe not memorable) romance that’s a good time. 

A Photo Finish by Elsie Silver 3 Stars: This was a solid romance that covered some more …mature (? Not sure the word, just haven’t seen some of the convo’s that exist in here in other books) themes and conversations that I enjoyed. I also enjoy the parallel to the first Elsie Silver series of books that I read (this follows the sister from the reckless series of books). 

Everyone is Lying to You by Jo Piazza 5 Stars: What an absolute delight of a book. From start to finish I loved this. Maybe it’s because it ties very much into the current themes of social media, with a mystery twist, or it just came at the right time, but boy do I recommend this one for a fun time. 

Call Me Hunter by Jim Shockey 3 Stars: Another audio book selection by my husband, but this one I have thoughts one. I enjoyed it, though I think it was almost too expansive- the through line between the two timelines/stories became lost and muddled as the story grew. 

The Fraud Squad by Kyle Zhao 2 Stars: I was hoping for something fun and instead I got an annoying main character (who I don’t know if she was naïve or dumb), a very loose predictable plot, but fun details. Basically, The Devil Wears Prada but not. 

And that wraps it up! We’re halfway through August now and I’ve already read 4 books…will August shape up to be as good as the rest of the months this year? 

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Hello from Alaska

Hello! I’m not even going to begin this post with a sorry or an explanation or anything of the sort. Life got hectic and as I’ve said, as much as I love the blog, it’s the first to go. 

Some updates- we now live in Alaska! We made the drive from El Paso, TX to Fairbanks, AK over 11 days in July. It was a long, beautiful drive that we are very happy to have behind us. I’ll throw some pictures up here so you can see some of what we saw and enjoyed about the drive. (If you’re interested in a whole post of our trip and our itinerary, I’d be happy to do that- just let me know! The below pictures or only a fraction of what we have)

We are in our new house, though living minimally while we are still waiting for our things to be delivered (though hopefully once you’re reading this, we will be in the thick of boxes and figuring things out). I can’t wait to share some of our spaces- I’ve got big plans for this home!

We’re slowly starting to settle into our new community- I’m taking a role within our local spouse’s club, have already dropped in to the USO, and have the next school PTO meeting on my calendar. I do plan on joining the workforce in some capacity during our time here, but finding the right fit will be key as my husband will be back in his normal job world and things will ramp up on his end once again. 

As far as upcoming posts, I actually have a surprising amount of travel posts from the past year to still write up and post- so those will be going up. A lot of travel, some home/lifestyle, and then once our home is set up, I’ll be sharing some bits from there (the library of course). Next week I’ll have my reading update from both June and July. 

We’re really looking forward to this chapter- Alaska already feels so much like home for us. 

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A Cuppa Cosy Reads – May 2025

Um hi- where did May go and why is June going just as fast? I’m literally writing this post on a late evening because quite honestly, I have no time, but I really want to keep up with all the things (this is definitely me and how I handle life). Somehow June is shaping up to be just as busy as May, coinciding with a move- which means things should be winding down, except I’m me and I keep saying yes! 

Anyways- you didn’t come here to read about that this week, that was last week (and maybe next week who knows). You came here today to hear about all the books I read in May- and boy did I read books in May. I read a total of 9 books and gave an average 3.54 rating. There were some real highs and some real lows there, and only one “this was fine” book in there. 

So, without further ado…

Wild by Cheryl Strayed NR This takes the cake as my least favorite of the month and honestly probably of the year. We picked this for our book club and honestly- hated every minute. I could write an entire thesis on it, but the wonderful people on good reads have already done it (I did give an entire essay verbally at book club though). 

The Perfect Marriage by Jeneva Rose 4.5 Stars I actually loved this one- the set-up, the storyline, the ending- this was exactly what I wanted in a thriller…

The Perfect Divorce by Jeneva Rose 2 Stars However this was completely unnecessary and relied on the same plot devices as the first (which you spend the entire book going- surely, she wouldn’t). I did not need to read it and I will not continue if there are new books with this same character. 

Dream Girl Drama by Tessa Bailey 3.75 Stars This was a solid romance, HOWEVER it felt flat in terms of characters. I felt like I was being told all these anxious things and being told that the characters felt this way, but I didn’t feel that. I also felt like the wrap up was very convenient. 

The Royals Upstairs by Karina Halle 3 Stars This is my OK book of the month. It’s a sister book and I just didn’t really need it. Convenient and not enough of the couple from the first book. 

Lessons In Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus 4 Stars This was a good literary fiction read. I always enjoy when women make fields work for them, especially in era’s when it was harder, and this was one of those stories. This was just a really lovely read, hard at times, but overall, so good to read. 

Off to the Races by Elsie Silver 3.5 Stars I think one of my favorite aspects of this was the horse racing and that we were following an owner/trainer- this wasn’t something I had read before, and I really enjoyed it. I am going to continue on in the series as I know Elsie Silver will always be a solid romance for me. 

Tentacle Kitty by John Merritt NR I picked this up at the book fair because it looked adorable- creatures sharing tales of adventure around an afternoon tea? Sign me up. And it delivered- just a fun short read! 

Little Heaven by Nick Cutter 4 Stars This was my final read of the month and what a way to go out. What Nick Cutter does so well is really setting the atmosphere, while you’re reading, you really get absorbed into his world and when you come out of it it takes a little bit of time. I always know his books are going to be dark, uncomfortable, and all encompassing. 

And that’s it for the month of May! It was a good reading month overall (I don’t know how I did it to be honest) and with summer coming, all the travel happening, and a break from saying yes to everything…well I’m looking forward to how many books I’ll be consuming!! 

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